I'm looking forward to 2019 already and it's still only October. A lot of sadness happened in 2018. I'm praying that it'll get better.

Every new year, we all hope that it would be in our favor. We look at horoscopes, fortune telling sites and to our elders to find the answers to what it means for our year when Tet, lunar new year, comes around. 

I think that no matter what they say, we all have to try our best to work hard in our careers, relationships and health. You don't get healthy by sitting around at home nor find the love of your life that way either. So go ahead and jot down tangible goals! For example, don't just simply say: I want to lose weight. Say, I want to lose 10lbs or an x amount of weight. 

When it comes to love, I always think trying TOO hard to make a relationship work is bad too. Try but not force. Like for instance, if you'd like to ask someone out on a date, ask them out on a date nicely. If they say no, don't say 'please, give me a chance'. Just move on, and find another more suitable love prospect. Let things fall in line naturally. If there is that chemistry with 2 people, it'll be more special. Be you and be comfortable being you.